Bonus Episode 010 | weaponized incompetence, when you end up having to do everything by yourself

Bonus Episode 010 | weaponized incompetence, when you end up having to do everything by yourself

Weaponized incompetence, had you heard of it? 

Until recently I  had honestly never heard the term.

It’s when someone pretends to be really bad at something in order to not be able to do it, like training or walking the dog…

In this episode, I examine how mindset plays into that. Can incompetence be a weapon if we choose to not let it be?

Would you like to learn how to deal with "weaponized" incompetence better?

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019 | Ruff Around the Edges with Lauren Sisak and Stella, an anxious dog in the city that never sleeps

019 | Ruff Around the Edges with Lauren Sisak and Stella, an anxious dog in the city that never sleeps

Imagine living in New York City with an anxious dog. I was pretty curious as to that experience and so when I found Lauren and Stella on Instagram,  asked them to come on the podcast, and were there stories to tell.

 

First of all we talk about how Lauren ended up choosing Stella, who is a she when she had set out to adopt a male dog. This had everything to do with Sammy her previous dog, who was also a little Ruff Around the Edges.

Then there is so much more, from the practicalities of living in the city, to how Lauren makes sure she meets her personal needs (making them a mandatory requirement).

We discuss the impact living with Stella has had on her relationships and friendships and what her mindset has been around that. There’s a hilarious (in my book) instagram post she made about it that I am linking to here:

And we talk about how medication has helped Stella, and how it’s not the end of the world when there are breaks in training.

There may be some talk about West Elm rugs and candy crush too, but you will just. have to listen to the episode for that.

Also, West Elm, if you’re reading this and you want to sponsor Lauren and Stella, then by all means reach out!

Bonus Episode 009 | Why do we want a dog training recipe?

Bonus Episode 009 | Why do we want a dog training recipe?

There’s nothing more maddening than working off of a recipe that doesn’t properly specify the ingredients, or their quantities.

It’s like when someone tells you to add a “dollop” of something and you wonder: Big dollop? Small dollop? Teaspoon full? Ladle? Internally you. are screaming for someone to please just give you an exact measurement already!

 

We want the same when it comes to our dogs. We want a specific step by step training plan. All bases should be covered. We want every if-then-else scenario accounted for.

 

Why though? Have you ever stopped and asked yourself that?

What are we afraid will happen if we don’t know all the steps? Why do we want or need someone else to tell us? What are we missing out on by putting all our eggs in the dog trainer’s basket?

What questions don’t we want to ask ourselves?

 

The episode isn’t all heavy, but you might want to listen to it after you have already eaten something or you might find yourself mysteriously longing for pancakes and pizza. Just saying.

Would you like to feel more confident and trust yourself more?

My coaching will help you do just that. Jump on a call with me to find out if it’s for you. I’ll help you find the questions you need to answer so you can rely less on others and feel confident trusting yourself.

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