027 | Haley & Scout (and Sean), on finding out where you and your dog fit in the (dog)world

Grab your dog and plan a dog walk or two.  Better yet, sit down, grab pen and paper and take notes. This episode is long and chock-full of wisdom.

Here are just some of the things Haley of @paws.andreflect talk about:

  • Why we choose to train the behaviors we train
  • Choice points: recognizing what you’re feeling and choosing to do something about it in a healthy and productive way rather than letting your feelings ruin your day. (What Haley describes are actually techniques you will learn in coaching with me as well).
  • Choosing the metrics you use to measure success: the recovery time after a reaction rather than if your dog reacts
  • Knowing who to trust as a trainer with all the contradictory advice out there
  • When is good good enough?
  • The law of diminishing marginal returns
  • What giving your dog freedom means

But also:

  • Positive punishment and how to have respectful conversations with people who have different views and opinions
  • Taking the leap to become a full-time self-employed writer about all things dog
  • Imposter syndrome and the nagging question of “Am I  good enough?”
  • Embarking on van life and the thought process behind it

    Links:

    Find Haley, her husband Sean, their van Hermes and their blue heeler Scout here:

    The Paws and Reflect Blog: https://pawsandreflect.blog/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paws.andreflect/

    Listen to the Paws and Reflect Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/nl/podcast/paws-and-reflect/id1645967746

    Listen to the Paws and Reflect Podcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Eu3BJt11SLdDeALOd6RVq?si=07654b34d5fd4832

    Want to learn to recognize your choice points?

    So you don’t have to have things ruin your entire day?

    Jump on a call with me to decide if coaching with me is right for you.

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